Figuring Out Fatherhood

I’ve been seeing a lot of posts about anti-abortion a lot lately and I thought I’d share my views on it.

I myself am pro-abortion. But please don’t think I’m some sort of heartless monster.. everyone here has the right to believe what they want and I think that’s fantastic. I think it should be legal because there are a lot of people in the world who are drug addicts, drunks, and just overall terrible people who shouldn’t be given the opportunity and the mirical of having a child. (I’m not trying sound like ass or bash people who support it) a lot of you who don’t support abortion probably have a good family and a pretty good life. But have you ever thought about being in the child’s shoes who’s parent was immature teen or a druggy/alcoholic who doesn’t care about their child or the responsibilities? Its an aweful way to grow up in my opinion. Now I’m sure there’s a small amount of you who have overcome and achieved success after having parents like that or who changed their ways for your kids. I applaud you, and I think its amazing that you did that. But what about the rest who couldn’t? When a woman is denied an abortion think about what happens to the child? Will he/she be sent to an orphanage? And if the child is, are you going to adopt him/her and give them a wonderful home and life? If everyone in the world who supported anti-abortion was assigned an abandoned child from their messed up parents I bet you would think otherwise. For those of you who do adopt these unwanted kids, I say you’re amazing people and your doing a wonderful job in this world.

Those are just my thoughts on the matter. I don’t what I would do without my little girl in my life.. I just think kids who are put in awful situations shouldn’t be forced to live a terrible life that they didn’t ask for… (I hope I didn’t offend anyone who read this. I just wanted to show that someone who supports isn’t some cruel evil monster..)

I just wish the world wasn’t the way it is..

So, after reading some very nice, informative comments and some….not so nice comments on my posted opinion on circumcision. I had to take a few steps back and look at the bigger picture. I got a lot of very positive and informative feedback from someone who is uncircumcised and really enjoys his sex life and that really made me think about what were arguing about here. I see the news and and read the headlines of daily newspapers about war devastating the middle east, starvation in Africa, revolution in Greece, America on the verge of collapse…..and here we are….. on tumblr…… arguing and slitting eachothers throats about how much skin should be on a penis…..

So I am no longer choosing sides on this debate. I was given personal evidence from someone who is uncircumcised and enjoys it. Circumcise, don’t circumcise doesn’t matter to me. Mothers and fathers of brand new beautiful baby boys, do what you think is best.

There are bigger things that we need to worry about.

As a man, I’d like to add my two cents to the tumblr moms debate over circumcisions. First I’d like to say that a vast majority of the people I’m seeing argue and bash one another over this topic is FEMALE. FEMALE! None of you have a penis, therefore you do not know what its like. You can do all the research you want on medical websites and what not, but you will never truly understand what a man feels having a circumsized penis. Unless you’re a hermaphrodite …. 
Most of you argue that its “torture” or “abuse”. Its not. I don’t even remember what I felt or even what happened the day I was circumsized, you know why? Cause I was a baby. No one can remember that far back! Has this so called “abuse” traumatized me and scarred me mentally for the rest of my life? Do I want to go out and murder puppies and kittens? No. I don’t. I’m a very happy man with a beautiful daughter and a wonderful fiancée. I couldn’t ask for more.

Now I’m about to describe the real sensation a man feels when making love. Not what you girls assume its like. (Its about to get a little graphic) When a man makes love to a woman the most intense feelings of pleasure are on the head of the penis. That little mushroom looking part. Not the shaft or anywhere else on the penis…. just there…. that feeling is what I’m assuming is the same sensation of a woman’s clitorus. Yes I know ill never truly know what that feels like for a woman, but I can tell by the look in my fiancees eyes that its nothing but magical

If you don’t believe me watch this video..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvTolDhgqbc

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7 1/2 month old here!

7month old today:)

What’s a “young child”? Logan’s 3, is that a young child for the purposes of this? lol.

10 month old here. (Not me, my son)

4 month old

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